This Easter seems to have been a catalogue of plans not going according to plan. People have been ill and visits postponed and cancelled and then it rained on days when trips to the park were laid out. And just lately my trip to Suffolk and then on to Cambridge was curtailed by a sick child. What can you do. The weather, sickness? Its nothing I can control. However on the upside some other things, not planned did happen and that was nice. I went to London with Bub to visit my brother, I caught up with friends who were camping at Wowo in Sussex on the way back. Today I have been able to tidy up the garden some what. And spend time doing yoga and writing this.
This morning I read a friends post on facebook which was Surrender = letting go of what we think should be happening for what is actually happening.
That's been my lesson this Easter Holiday. In many ways. I have also learnt to step back a little from trying to over engineer other people's relationships. I can't make other people do what I think they 'should' be doing. I am letting go. Its hard to let go entirely and I still felt awkward. But I didn't get utterly upset.
All is good
And my son is not ill any more.
What is. is.
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