Cutting out the Clutter.

I have been simplifying.  Its been a slightly odd few weeks and I have found myself dissatisfied more often than not.  I found that life was wanting me to draw in, not moving outwards but inwards.  And this underlying frustration acts as some kind of spur.  Its like I draw in to bloom out again. At some point.

But some key things have happened.

Firstly I had a deep realisation about facebook.  It is really useful and enjoyable for some things.  But for others it really isn't.  And for the first time in, well, possibly, ever.  I have wanted to avoid it.  Really properly wanted to get away from it.

Its like it started to become the go to method for everything.  But it wasn't working as it should, there was something about it that felt really wrong.  I was chatting to a friend who has just written a book called Digital Inferno about how there is something ephemeral about facebook which makes it not a good place to make arrangements.  As in, I organise the Brighton Likemind meet up.  There are 700 members of the group on facebook.  Every month about 15-20 people say that they are coming on facebook, and a further 15 or so say maybe.  But its been between 3-6 people who actually show up.

Paul was explaining that there is a sort of distance with facebook or perhaps any social media.  And when people say that they are coming (click 'going' or 'maybe') they are just indicating what they are thinking at the time.  Rather than feeling anything resembling the kind of commitment you feel when you say you will attend something in person. I know I do it all the time.  Its just a weird public and not real place.  I mean we know that, of course.  But for this group its just not working.

On the other hand, for the Hanover Baby & Kids Stuff Sales its bloody marvellous.  Also I am part of a couple of really excellent discussion groups that have been super supportive and helpful for me.  1 of these is a secret group, and the other two are private groups.  And these work really well too.

I actually came offline entirely on Friday.  I feel that my online presence will become much more selective.  And that feels good.

IN fact, I think I will be getting much more selective in my entire life.  I have read two wonderful books in the last week (being offline and wanting to stay home and not talk to anyone has aided that!)  One is called Essentialism and is about Less But Better.  Which is utterly perfect as my new words to live by slogan.  And also a slightly insane book by a Japanese tidying consultant which is called THe Life Changing Magic of Tidying.  Seriously. (it so makes my husband laugh)
 Again it is about getting rid of anything unessential.

And so begins the pruning.  I am having a massive clear out.  I do have a tendency to clutter, and to proliferate.  War on Stuff is like a continual practice in my life.  Its my yoga, its my job, its a mission for me.  But I am practicing and I am getting better at it.

I am stopping teaching yoga (my own classes - I will do cover classes only).  And that feels like the right decision.   I am thinking I will do the same with the art classes as they stand as well.  Or stop doing them so often.  I have more Get Stuff Done work coming up, which I enjoy and which brings me income.  And I have Startism.  Which is like the Wild Art Journaling but bigger and better. 

The rest of my energies at present will be about clearing out the non essential from my life.  House clutter clearing,  life clutter clearing.  And I have employed a coach.  I guess that too will be about getting down to the nub of what it is I am doing and why and getting really clear on my path.  Oh its all about the CLARITY, baby.  Bye Bye Clutter.  I am on a mission.