Monday, 2 January 2017

what was a struggle last year?

I struggled to focus - as usual.  This is my thing.  I prefer to wildly off in many directions starting things and thinking of ideas.  Getting down to business.  Especially new stuff.  Like writing.  Was HAR D.  for me.  I discovered new ways to procrastinate.  I am the queen of procrastination. 

On the upside I discovered that Pomodoro is the BIZ in tackling it.  As is perseverance.  I kept going and I am discovering that I am getting there.  I can do it. I am getting quicker and better at it.  The last piece I just wrote I am really pleased with and it took way less time. 

Being in a close relationship can be hard.  And communication sometimes falls down. I'd proclaim that its NOT MY FAULT as DB refuses to talk to me because I am 'so annoying'.  Apparently.  S(can you feel my indignation and the way I throw my hands up in the air with a WTF.  Yes, well - obviously he needs to stop getting so annoyed about nothing and communicate....... etc etc.

But  I have learned that if I just hold my tongue and leave it, he will stop.  And if it goes on overnight then DEFINITELY the next day he agrees with me (mostly) or at least is totally fine and we can then communicated fine about whatever.  So getting better.  OTHER PEOPLE eh? 

I am also assuming that my communication aint so clear either so working on that. 




1 comment:

Lizzie@her MFW Homeworld said...

Fahed is like that too. I think i sort of fill up his buffer (remember when computers were that slow). I just go away until he processes everything. I only learnt that a few years ago though. Why do they (by which i really mean all of us) come with instructions???