I want a hair cut

Am obsessing about hair cuts.  And hair styles.  I have long long long hair.  Its think and dyed a rather dreaful auburn.  I am loathing it.  I want something that is sassy and a bit edgy but not so edgy I look ugly.  Ugh! its so hard! I want a brilliant intuitive stylist to discuss my options at length and then help me to a hair cut that is good but actually suits my face.  Where is that stylist?  And what is it that I want done?